Monday, September 7, 2015

What exactly does it mean to be gay, anyway?

I’m confused.

Forty years ago, the gay rights lobby just wanted to be recognized for its existence and its lifestyle. A quarter century back, the gay community just wanted acceptance for its sexual preference. Then fifteen years ago, it sought legitimacy for a biological orientation.

My question is, which is it? The gay rights lobby could not seem to settle on whether it wanted to argue a lifestyle, a preference, or a biological orientation. When it did not win recognition for its existence and lifestyle, the ante was upped to a sexual preference. When preference failed to gain acceptance, then it embraced the notion of a biological orientation.

This latest argument has undeniably been its most successful, because now the lobby can claim legal status based upon something that just is. Kind of like the way a person cannot help the color of his or her skin and his or her ethnicity. Gender, however, has become a condition that is changed with an operation, or series of them. Just ask Bruce—er, I mean Caitlin—Jenner.

Gay rights had a tough sell for legal status back when homosexuality was a lifestyle or a physiological preference, because it was still viewed as a choice, oftentimes made from environmental influences.

But now, all bets are off. The instant some scientist claimed to have isolated a possible “gay gene,” the lobby has jumped on this band wagon and ridden it all the way to the U.S. Supreme Court.

Homosexuality, under the genetic theory, then is a biological orientation that cannot be helped or changed. It is what it is.

Really?

Funny how no one in the gay community argued that back when it was just a lifestyle, or when it became a preference. It was then what it was, too.

But a genetic explanation is more politically expedient, and a convenient way to garner sympathy amidst popular culture. They can’t help it, after all.

Can’t help it? Where is your pride? A quarter century ago, gay pride was taking a stand for one’s personal sexual preference. No shame.

But to claim now that homosexuality is a biological force that cannot be helped sort of neutralizes the whole pride thing, doesn’t it? If a gay person is proud to be gay, then why would he or she want to lean on an argument that says their homosexuality is something that cannot be changed. If one is proud, then why would one want to argue they cannot change? Would they even want to if they could?

Furthermore, the gay gene theory seems to violate the laws of nature as it is, and the theory of evolution. No other creature in the animal kingdom exhibits homosexual behavior for the sake of sexual activity. Some animals, like canines and other pack animals, may “hump” others in their group in order to establish superiority and their place in the hierarchy of the pack.

But they don’t do this for sexual gratification or because they are romantically attracted to a member of the opposite sex. Human beings, it seems, are the only creatures in the entire animal kingdom who exhibit homosexual behavior for this purpose.

If homosexuality is indeed biological, then how could it be isolated only to humans? Where is the research on other animals in the kingdom, and why aren’t other creatures found to have the same traits?

In my opinion, the gay rights movement had it right the first time. Homosexuality is a preference and a lifestyle, influenced significantly by environment. There is as much or more evidence of this as there is of a genetic explanation for homosexuality.

But popular culture, in its zeal to embrace yet another oppressed segment of the population, chooses to ignore other explanations for homosexuality. It has blindly accepted the gay gene theory, which is still just a theory. Nothing conclusive has been found over the past two decades of research. Not any more than the research on environmental factors of gayness.

And yet, here we are, on the cusp of social upheaval over gay rights and its blatant intrusion into the sacred religious social institution of marriage, with the full backing of the nation’s highest court. All based on a scientific theory that still has more questions attached to it than it has been able to provide answers for.

Near as I can tell, no “law” of nature has been written yet concerning homosexuality. The questions of how it develops still remain, and the debate continues. But we are content to award legal status to the gay community and give it the full might of the U.S. Supreme Court based on some theory, a scientific notion that homosexuality is like ethnicity. It is biological and cannot be helped or changed.

What in the world are we coming to? What other institutions will be infiltrated and, indeed, invaded by the lobby now that it has marriage ruled in its favor? And if public officials can be jailed, dismissed, disbarred or de-licensed for refusing to perform their duties on religious grounds, then can the religious community expect further violations if it refuses to admit gay members into its folds? Where will the social and legal assaults stop? Or, will they?

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